I think I’m losing what I used to have. Perhaps this is called change. I have yet to embrace what I have gained, still holding on to the small things. This has made me sad, but I have no regrets because the more I lose, the more I know that moments like this will never repeat. A lot of people say go on and continue life. Life is like that. Things change. To be honest I choose to hold on. But not to hold on to the moments I missed. It is to hold on, to the hearts and feelings that we used to share. I know everyone is busy, busy to the point that everything becomes difficult. People say distance makes the heart fonder... but at the same time, I see a lot of broken relationships too as a result. To make or to break, ultimately is our choice after all. The key is priority and initiative.
How much time do we have? It doesn't matter. What matters is what have we done.. Have we impacted each others lives?
It is everything else:
Being busy and all doesn’t make you important. Yet friends look for you. You could do the same.
Being poor and all doesn’t make you important. Yet friends don’t desert you.
In fact, when you lack, friends will be there.
The real meaning of friendship is more than just having fun but by being there. Fun just follow..
Friendship is not an “I owe you“ relationship.
" I love you"-------------------
" I care about you"------------How are you? Can you cope?
" I know you"-----------------
" I miss you"------------------How are you? Haven't seen you in ages.
" It's all about you"------------
A Yes or a No. These are simple ways to answer questions.
Yet beyond a Yes is acceptance, beyond a No is rejection. How many times have we said no? We live in a busy world. We have no time to think, to consider others. We just run our own lives and later on, we get amazed by everything that has been done for us.
Sometimes, .... we are all just like that. Too ignorant. We take things for granted. We should give thanks and appreciate all that we have.
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